You're the only one who can give yourself the greatest gift that can ever be received: self-love. Loving yourself is the door that carries you into your heart's dream life. The most important way to love yourself is to listen to your heart and prioritize what it says over everything else.
Without self-love, nothing else matters, but with it, everything has beauty and meaning. Loving yourself is a form of alchemy that transforms your environment. Your world is more similar to a dream than your mind realizes, where everything is dynamic instead of static.
The illusion of your mind says there is no connection between your internal and external world, but your heart tells a different story. Your external world is intimately connected to your internal world because it's a mirror.
If you want to change the reflection that is your life, go within and shift your internal world. Loving yourself is the most powerful way to align your inner world with everything your heart desires, which will then manifest in the outer, material world.